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一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一“5天都没能全部实施呢，提什么4天。”一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一“能有个周末休息2天我就谢天谢地了。”一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一对于忙碌的上班族来讲，别说3天休息了，2天的放假都是奢侈品。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一理想很丰满，现实很骨感。现实中的中国人，一种都很忙。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一那为什么中国人闲不下来呢？一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一图片来源于中国新闻网02没法闲：天天加班的中国人中国人上个班有多忙？对于大多数上班族来说，“996”是常态。早上9点上班，晚上9点下班，一周工作6天。百度百科对此定义为“非常辛苦且不人道的工作制度”。不得不说，这只是小巫见大巫。一位零件生产工厂里的工人，每天早上5点起床赶去工厂，午饭和晚饭的时间不超过半个小时，每天要工作10小时以上。在旺季，他平均一个月要加班100多个小时，每天至少加班4个小时。某团的一个外卖小哥，收入不算低，但每一块钱全是靠时间积起来的。他每天从早上10点，一直接单跑单到凌晨2点钟，风雨不改，每天出勤，每个月做足30天。一家名企市场部的白领，最近连续2个月凌晨1点下班，第二天9点正常上班。最忙的时候手上同时处理4个项目，直到早上5点才收工。对她来说，最大的困扰就是睡眠不够。加班多，自然休息时间少。根据国家统计局的“中国经济生活大调查”结果显示，除去工作和睡觉，2017年中国人每天平均休闲时间为2.27小时，较3年前（2.55小时）有所减少。相比而言，美国、德国、英国等国家国民每天平均休闲时间约为5小时，为中国人的2倍。没完没了的加班，是因为公司没人性，老板太剥削？其实你会发现，很多人的忙碌，都是自愿的。没法闲只是表象，更重要的原因，是中国人不敢闲。03不敢闲：钱好难赚你知道“穷”字是怎么写的吗？网上有人这么解读：先是宝盖头，代表固定的地方，然后下面一个“八”，就是8小时，然后是“力”，代表卖力工作。它生动地说明了：在一个固定的单位，每天8小时，卖力地工作，结果是：穷。南昌的地铁上，一个四五岁的小孩弄丢了地铁票，他的妈妈气得直打他。有好心人赶紧劝她“就5块钱而已，你再买票就好了，别打孩子。”这位年轻的妈妈说：“5块钱好多了。好难赚，钱好难赚。”她说自己一个月才能赚900元，小孩的抚养费就要1000多。老公跟她长期分居，她独自一人不仅得带孩子，还要照顾得病的母亲。趁着零碎的时间，还得去做钟点工，一小时才8块钱。上有老下有小，这位妈妈不敢闲，因为手停就口停，饭都没得吃。即便她想歇歇，生活也不给她机会。前面提到的零件工人，他叫权哥，每天累死累活，时薪才14.5元。厂方为了让他们多干活，把他们的正常工资压得很低，他们必须不停地加班，才能获得能保证基本体面生活的报酬。家里的宝宝刚刚出生，为了赚奶粉钱，权哥甚至试过连续工作14天不休息，天天加班连轴转。为了养活妻儿，这个男人不敢闲，因为多一分休息，就少一分收入。04不敢闲：赚再多也嫌少阿建来自贵州一个小山村，他的父母辛辛苦苦了一辈子，用50万起了一栋5层的独立屋。建哥当时认为，房子没必要建那么高，两三层就够了。老爸老妈却坚持说，以前穷就会被人欺负，被人看不起。现在有钱了，一定要建这么高，隔壁家那么高，我们家也要那么高。离开小山村，阿建到上海打工，第一份工作，是小区保安。工资少还要三班倒，只能住在500块钱一个月的地下室，窗口只有巴掌那么大，冬天冷夏天热，随时都看到老鼠和蟑螂。拼搏了5年，阿建终于熬出头，成为500强企业的副总经理。买了车，住进高档的公寓。收入越高越忙。一个人管理着40多个团队，白天开会晚上应酬，一点休息时间没有。公司开年会给他颁奖，他却累倒躺在了医院里。朋友劝他停一停，身体最重要。他说：“有时太累了，真的不想工作了。但是不干就没有钱，没有钱的生活，是打死也不想回去了。”有的人很忙，想停下来，但怕一旦闲下来，日子就会变得很糟糕。尝过好日子，再也不想退回原点，打回原形。正如老家的那栋楼，已经盖到了5层，再也不想变回平房。《人民的名义》里，“小官巨贪”赵德汉贪污了一整墙的人民币，有满屋的钱却一分钱不敢花，他说：“我家祖祖辈辈都是农民，穷怕了。”穷是一种病，一种人们唯恐避之不及的病。人总会嫌自己赚得少，不管赚多少也嫌少。贫穷可怕，返贫更可怕，谁也没有办法避免对贫穷的恐惧。忙，忙着赚钱，才能带来一种踏实和安全感。05不敢闲：问题不是收入多少，而是负担多大徐先生月薪5万，加上老婆的工资，家庭年收入超70万，算得上是中产阶级了。虽然收入高，但花销也庞大，生活还是忙得喘不过气。他算了一笔账，两套房子的房贷，每个月要还两三万；女儿在广州某外语小学读书，每学期13000。其他开销还有车子管理费伙食医疗等等。对了，暑假到了，得请个钟点工看着孩子，工资要5000。女儿还想去美国游学，10天的团费就要2万。为了给妻女更好的生活，徐先生拼命工作，加班到夜里两三点是家常便饭。忙完回到家，老婆和孩子已经睡了。他也倒头就睡，因为第二天又是需要全力奋斗的一天。他想着，只要再多忙几个月，拿下项目，就能冲刺年底的奖金，到时可以把其中一套房贷还清了。能不能闲，看的不是收入多少，而是负担多少。穷人忙为了房子，富人忙为了更好的房子。穷人忙为了教育，富人忙为了更好的教育。穷人忙为了生活，富人忙为了更好的生活。06为什么你的时间总是不够用赫胥黎说过：“时间最不偏私，给任何人的都是二十四小时；时间也最偏私，给任何人的都不是二十四小时。”有的人上班时明明很忙很勤奋，但工作总是做不完。刚毕业入职那会，我就是这样的状态。本来昨天就该完成的PPT，由于写稿太晚耽搁了，我只能今天早上急急忙忙做。一早人事就走来问我，表格填好了没有，我忘记这事了，于是临时去填表格。过不久，同事找我，问明天开会要用的资料写好没有。我急着交PPT，只能说我今晚加班再写。昨天没做完的事情堆积到今天，今天堆积到明天，一波接一波地恶性循环，我只好天天加班。有天晚上10点，我的上司回来办公室，拿落下的东西。看到我还在加班，她并没有表扬，而是提醒我：“工作的成果是看你为公司带来的价值，而不是你在办公室待得多晚。”那天晚上，她跟我谈了很多。我这才意识到，自己对工作很忙，理解错了方向。天天加班，总觉得已经很努力，累死累活，感动的只有自己。公司要看到的，是结果，是成绩。没有做出价值的工作，即使加班到通宵，公司还嫌弃你浪费电。能产生价值的努力，才是有效的努力。换句话说，怎么努力比努力本身更重要。07你需要让工作效益最大化工作，不应该视作流水线任务，来一个做一个。而是要视作你手里的资源，必须去想怎样才能让手头上的工作效益最大化。（1）改变你的意识。“我已经努力了”，可以是对你自己的安慰。但更要明白，努力的结果才最重要。（2）事有轻重缓急。把手头上的工作分类，清楚什么事应该先做，什么事应该后做，什么事应该认真做，什么事应该简化做。（3）“8020”定律。一个人工作中20%的事情，是最具有价值的；其余80%的事情，往往都是杂事。所以要用80%的时间，做好最能体现你工作价值的那些20%的事情；剩下80%的琐事，用20%的时间搞定。（4）不在状态，不如休息。当你在工作状态时，就争取多干点事情。当你不在状态时，与其强迫自己干活，效率极低，不如去运动一下，甚至睡一会都可以。休息不需要有负罪感，勉强拧巴才是真受罪。（5）提升自己的能力，学会为明天工作。今天吃饱肚子很重要，但同样需要考虑明天我能挣多少钱。这就需要你除了做好手头的事情，还需要注重为明天的自己充电、加油。（6）享受生活同样重要。纸醉金迷，那是堕落；但过成苦行僧，也没有意义。一天8小时内，认真工作，其余时间，请认真生活。其实，英国经济学家凯恩斯曾经预言，到2028年，人们终将从疯狂的工作劳动中解放出来，到那时，我们每个人每天只需要工作3小时，将会有大把的休闲时间。这和北京《休闲绿皮书》的意见很有异曲同工之妙。但首先你必须要保证自己的努力和劳动能带来价值。否则，十年、二十年后，即使你一天工作十几个小时，可能照样还是不足以温饱，既不能闲，也不敢闲。作者：国馆来源：国馆（guoguan5000）一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一责任编辑：