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第一批独生子女已经撑不下去了“第一批独生子女已经撑不下去了”

长河网 • 2019-01-23 12:02:52 • 文化 • 阅读 2
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原标题：“第一批独生子女已经撑不下去了”这可能是独生子女最难熬的时代。01这几天，网上刮起一场名为1.76亿独生子女危机的焦虑风暴，而身边发生的事儿也特别应景。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一朋友A。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一多年大龄单身，好不容易找了对象结了婚。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一然而，刚结婚三个月，就离了。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一理由难以想象，过不到一起，性格不合。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一朋友B。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一家门不幸，亲妈出门买菜，把腿摔了，还没出院。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一不巧的是公公又查出重病，来北京寻医问药。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一小夫妻俩忙得晕头转向，攒下的积蓄所剩无几。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一朋友C。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一中产不缺钱，还给父母在北京买了房。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一每个月固定家用，下半辈子都花不完。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一可他爸天天往家买保健品，说老年人不怕穷就怕病，不能给儿子惹麻烦。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一凑在一起，可以总结一句话：第一批独生子女已经撑不下去。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一说起独生子女的成长路，不少人都是感慨：小时候得父母独宠，有求必应，长大后举步维艰，问题重重。一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一一真是小时候的蜜糖，长大后成了砒霜。02先说离婚。这几年，80、90后这代独生子女成为离婚主力大军。2018最高人民法院发布的《离婚纠纷司法大数据专题报告》说，77.51%的夫妻是因为感情不和离婚。什么叫感情不和，这个问题我问过刚离婚那个朋友。她跟我说了一堆，没有一件我能记得住，但我从这些鸡毛蒜皮的小事里明白一个道理，她这种人，就适合自己一个人过。当初找对象的时候就各种挑剔，后来好不容易找到一个条件不错的，她又觉得对方不懂得迁就。都说好的婚姻都让人舒服，放在她身上就成了自己舒服就行。按照她妈的话说，就是从小霸道惯了。不难想象，独生子女，从小就有一种幻觉，因为要求太容易被满足，她们习惯了别人围着自己，因为没有兄弟姐妹，也就没有机会学习和人相处。很多独生子女未必是嘴上的狠，而是骨子里的独。我身边就有不少这样的朋友——表面上和谁都聊得来，亲密关系却是各种问题，无论是单身还是已婚，他们经常陷入一种纠结，一边渴望亲密，一边排斥亲密。想要和对方亲近，又不希望被控制得太紧。两难之中，孤独抑郁成了一个巨大的社会问题。美国心理学家威廉·格拉瑟曾经说过：“人都是社会性动物，所以大部分心理问题其实都是人际关系的问题。”无法包容，不懂接纳，是独一代最大的困局。03当然，缺少感情的确很难受，但还有更让人难受的，就是缺钱。如今，第一批独生子女大多挣扎奔四路上，上有双亲，下有二胎，全家都是碎钞机。只能从自己身上吃拿卡要，可能还不够，重点是千万别生病。我有个大学同学。工作狂，恋爱不谈，逛街不去，生活重心只有工作，口头禅就一句：何以解忧，唯有致富。要说这样的人，迟早是中产的命。可父母一病，一招打回贫困户。可是，你还会发现，没钱还不是最可怕的。前两天，在朋友圈看了一张照片，差点没泪奔。暖心什么呀，简直就是扎心。后来一查，这张《独生子》竟然还得过奖。摄影师张审军说：“这是2012年在安新县医院看护病人的时候遇见的一个病友。当时，这家有两个老人同时生病，夫妻二人忙里忙外。”这种状态真的不是只在照片里。生活里有多少独生子女，面临着这样的困境：不赚钱养不起你，赚钱没人管你。一个远嫁的闺蜜曾经撕心裂肺地跟我说，为什么父母当初没生个儿子，自己也就不用这么难以割舍。04说回那个爸爸一直买保健品的朋友C。他是这几个故事里最离奇的，却也是最常见的。“儿子比不上骗子”，据说已经成为一个社会问题。前不久，八旬老人带着七箱保健品住进救助站的新闻引起热议。孙爷爷独居武汉10年，经常被人拉去参加各种保健品推销讲座，不仅花光积蓄40万，还因为找不到孩子电话，流落街头，最后被民警送去救助站。生活里，这种被保健品毁掉的家庭比比皆是。有个大学同学的亲爸，今天倒腾点古玩字画，明天买点灵丹妙药，据说前段时间连P2P都玩儿上了。积蓄铁定是没有了，他还得负责还债。说起自己这几年的忙碌，他就唉声叹气，早知道“不回家看看”这么贵，自己早就和父母黏在一起了。其实，仔细想想，老人之所以成了骗子收割机，原因无非两个。一来是孤单，缺少陪伴。二来是害怕生病拖累子女。谁都知道，防骗最好的方法就是陪着爹妈。可惜，和骗子相比，我们的时间和精力都太有限了。朋友聚会的时候，总有人感叹，父母老了，孩子还不争气，自己又处在半山腰，想往上爬，能力欠费，单枪匹马，不得不活成一支队伍。人活于世，每个人都不容易，可独生子女的日子却显得分外难熬，承载全部希望，肩负责任重担，身前千军万马，身后却空无一人。可是，那又能怎么样呢？毕竟曾经享过的福，迟早是要还的。或许你唯一能做的就是早点看见一个人的艰难，多赚点钱，然后撑下去。责任编辑：

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