拥抱现实成功的原理-第二集，拥抱现实处理现实

原标题：成功的原理-第二集，拥抱现实处理现实成功的原理是由RayDalio推出的8集迷你短片，每集展示一个原理，帮你深入思考并为自己所用视频地址：https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dKz095P7LdU第二集：为了更好的生活，你需要直面现实，尤其那些残酷的现实你对生活之路的选择是你最重要的决定对我来说我曾希望过最好的生活我害怕平庸害怕无聊胜过害怕失败我起步时钱不多但需要的也不多一张床容身填饱肚子就行为了追求冒险我会改变决定自从我还是小孩起我就追寻想要的东西跌倒爬起来再追再跌倒每次跌倒我都有所受益有所改善跌倒得越来越少一遍又一遍我学会了热爱这个过程热爱跌倒的体验通过这个过程我认识了现实学会了如何处理它并由此激发了我最基础的法则之一即真理是获得良好结果必不可少的基础说到真理我只是指世界运行的方式我相信我们天生就拥有现实法则法则不是人类创造但我们可以利用法则进步达到目标意识到这一点我变得非常现实我的意思是说通过深度理解接受并真正处理现实而不是想当然地处理现实我从中获益匪浅说到现实人们可能以为我在说梦想不能成真大错特错没有梦想生活平庸得可怕对我来说现实的态度是选择和实现个人梦想最好的方式有了宏伟的梦想再拥抱现实加上许多的决心肯定会在生活中获得成功我相信这个办法适用于所有人但成功的生活是什么样子的？我们要自己去定义成功我不在乎你是想成为宇宙之王还是闲适度日还是其他什么我真的不关心这些每个人的目标都基于自己的价值观实现目标最佳的方法要自己去决定但我们需要一个良好的决策方法特别是面对问题、错误和弱点阻碍我们前进的时候要成功就得拥抱所有的现实特别是难以接受的严酷现实一开始面对血淋淋的现实我非常痛苦但我意识到这只是心理上的痛苦我看待事物的方式才最重要我转而把问题看成谜题能解决谜题就可获得奖励这种态度帮助我处理眼前的问题在未来碰到类似问题时有了处理的原则我学会了将痛苦看做学习的机会进而意识到痛苦加思索就等于进步冥想帮助我形成了上述看法让我大获裨益我发现当自己平静下来接受现实处理现实的时候痛苦就消散了我感到了愉悦每个人都有能力逻辑性地思考思考我们自身和我们所处的境遇指导我们自身的发展要能良好地做到这一点只需要遵循简单的五步走在第三集我们会看看这是哪五步以及如何加以利用English：Thepathyoutakeinlifeisyourmostimportantdecision.Inmycase,IwantedmylifetobegreatandIfearedboredomandmediocritymorethanIfearedfailure.SinceIdidn\'tstartoutwithmoney,andIdidn\'tneedmuchmorethanabedtosleepinandfoodtoeat,Icouldskewmydecisionstopursuemyadventures.SoeversinceIwasakid,IranafterthethingsIwanted,crashed,gotupandranagain,andcrashedagain.AndeachtimeIcrashedIlearnedsomething,gotbetter,andcrashedless.Bydoingthatoverandoveragain,Ilearnedtolovethisprocess,eventhecrashingpartofit.Throughit,Iencounteredreality,andIlearnedhowtodealwithit,whichinspiredanotheroneofmymostfundamentalprincipleswhichisthattruthistheessentialfoundationforproducinggoodoutcomes.Bytruth,Idon\'tmeananythingmorethanthewaytheworldworks.Ibelievethatweweregiventhelawsofrealitybynature.Humansdidn\'tcreatethem,butwecanusethemtofosterourownevolutionandachieveourgoals.Realizingthatmademeahyperrealist,bywhichImeanIbecamesomeonewhohasdiscoveredthegreatrewardsofdeeplyunderstanding,accepting,andworkingwithrealityasitisandnotasIwishitwouldbe.WhenIsayI\'mahyperrealist,peoplesometimesthinkI\'msayingthatdreamscan\'tcometrue.That\'sabsolutelynottrue.Withoutpursuingdreams,lifeismundane.WhatImeanisthattome,hyperrealismisthebestwaytochooseone\'sdreamsandthenachievethem.Havingbigdreamsplusembracingrealityplushavinglotsofdeterminationwillbringyouasuccessfullife.Ibelievethisformulaistrueforeveryone,butwhatdoesasuccessfullifelooklike?Weeachhavetodecideforourselveswhatsuccessis.Idon\'tcarewhetheryouwanttobeamasteroftheuniverseortoliveunderapalmtreeoranythingelse.Ireallydon\'t.Eachofuschoosesgoalsbasedonourvaluesanddecidesonthebestpathtoachievethem,butweallneedapproachestomakingdecisionsthatworkwell,especiallywhenfacingproblems,mistakes,andweaknessesthatstandinourway.Tosucceed,wemustembraceallourrealities,especiallytheharshrealitiesthatwewishweren\'ttrue.Atfirst,lookingattheseharshrealitiescausedmealotofpain,butIlearnedthatthispainwasjustpsychologicalandthatbyseeingthingsdifferentlymadeallthedifference.IcametoviewproblemslikepuzzlesthatwouldrewardmeifIcouldsolvethem.Theywouldhelpmedealwiththeproblemathand,andtheywouldgivemeprinciplesfordealingwithsimilarproblemsinthefuture.Ilearnedtotreatpainasacuethatagreatlearningopportunityisathand,whichledmetorealizethatpainplusreflectionequalsprogress.Meditationhasbeeninvaluableinhelpingmeseethingsthatway.IfoundthatwhenIcalmedmyselfdownandembracedmyrealitiesanddealtwiththem,therewardsbroughtmepleasureandthepainfaded.Eachofushastheuniquecapabilitytothinklogicallytoreflectonourselvesandourcircumstancesandtodirectourownpersonalevolution.Doingthiswellisjustamatteroffollowingasimplefive-stepprocess.Inepisodethree,we\'llexplorewhatthatprocessisandhowtouseit.责任编辑：

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